Where sensuality returns
I am a trained sexologist in the Somatica® Method, specializing in somatic intimacy and relationship coaching. I'm so glad you're here.
Like many of us, I grew up believing love followed a simple sequence — finish school, meet “the one,” fall in love, get married, & build a life. I believed that if I fit the "good girl” mold my happy ending would unfold just like the movies and stories I was raised on.
Well, that fairytale unraveled years ago. I’m far more layered, complex, and untamed than what meets the eye—and I have a feeling I’m not alone in that revelation.
At the heart of my work is a commitment to pleasure and presence—two forces that guide my own life. My goal is to expand what’s possible in intimacy and relationship: supporting women in experiencing fulfilling intimacy, men in expressing vulnerability without judgment, and all of us in choosing connection over isolation.
Well, hello I'm Tia!
Together, we’ll explore what it means to feel seen, heard, and understood as inspired by The Somatica® Method. We’ll uncover the patterns, triggers, and core desires that shape your interactions and move beyond surface-level dynamics to create meaningful change, in real-time.
I don’t believe intimacy is something to force or fix.
I believe it is something to be listened to, sensed, and gently invited forward.
I offer warm, authentic and humanized coaching that centers your body's wisdom and unique erotic mapping.
I support you in listening to what’s already stirring inside you — your boundaries, your desires, your truth. And I walk beside you with steadiness, care, and attunement as you learn to trust what you feel.
Key methods to my approach:
communication & REPAIR
ATTUNEMENT & eXPERIENTIAL
trauma-informed resilience & safety
RELATIONSHIP DESIGN
MY APPROACH
Through the transformative power of the Somatica® Method, I began to release the layers of shame I carried around due to the unconventional path of my own love life. This work strengthened my ability to stay connected with friends and family, softened old wounds with my parents, and cultivated greater self-compassion. It also restored hope and confidence in my capacity to repair what once felt fractured — revealing that connection, with care and presence, could still be found on the other side.
Perhaps most meaningfully, it reignited the spark in my relationship, bringing aliveness back to what had slowly become routine. These lived experiences now inform the way I work — with empathy, honesty, and deep respect for the complexity of love.
My journey
here
My journey to this work began in my own life. I’ve experienced the highs and lows of a 20+ year monogamous heteronormative relationship with my high school sweetheart, raising a blended family and navigating the realities of love, parenting, personal growth, and the longing for more passion and spaciousness in everyday life.
Growing up in a biracial blended home deeply shaped my understanding of relationships. It also ignited a desire to break generational cycles of simply “pushing through” or "moving on" rather than tending to what’s beneath the surface.
Through my own relationships, I learned that love is not linear. It bends, breaks open, and asks more of us than the fairytales ever prepared us for. That realization changed the way I understand intimacy — and ultimately shaped the work I now offer.
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